Where are the gentlemen?

I spent my whole day yesterday at Abs-Cbn rehearsing for ASAP. On our way to the cafeteria, A man bumped my shoulder and didn't turn around to apologize. Did he not feel that at all? At the hall way, approaching the heavy glass doors, two men pushed the door towards me and the other girls. We take a step back. They pass us and let the door close behind them. How can these men be so oblivious to the world? We look at each other, roll our eyes, and just open the door ourselves. At the cafeteria, I overloaded my tray with so much food (hungry!). Carefully balancing my elaborate meal as I headed for our table, a bag of chips fall off my tray. I looked around searching for the nearest table where I could put my tray down. It was like 5 steps away. I helplessly looked at the men that passed me, waiting for one of them to pick it up for me. They didn't. Well, someone else did...it was a girl for Christ's sake! When I got injured during our rehearsals, my GAY co-dancers rushed to get me some ice; when I was carrying my heavy bag up the stairs today, my GAY friend saw me and offered to bring it up for me; in the show "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy", a gay man teaches a straight man that it's a must to offer a lady guest a drink within the next 5 minutes of her arrival at his home. Does a man have to be gay to be able to know and do all these? Impolite, ill-bred, ill-mannered, uncouth, rude men are a major turn-off for me, I'm sorry. Gone are the days when they would open the door for you, when they ask if they could carry your heavy load, or when they pull the chair for you in a restaurant (at least if he's your husband or boy-friend). I'm not saying that all the men are like that now. But most men I know and have encountered lately, are. Sorry guys. :( Many women may not care about this, but I do. Manners matter, okay! If the good Lord blesses me with a son, for sure I will do my very best to raise him to be a faultlessly polite, pleasantly tactfull and well-mannered man (my fingers crossed). Gentlemen -- are they really a dying breed?